My daughter's fourth grade has a classroom economy. Students have jobs that pay different
amounts, they owe rent on their desks, and they earn bonuses or fines depending
on meeting (or not) goals and expectations. It's a real-world way for them to talk about money,
responsibility, and how economics works.
We talk about the classroom economy a lot at dinnertime and
I'm fascinated by the aspects of it that stand out for my daughter. She already wonders about fairness and
how to be ethical in her role as one of the classroom bankers. Being the classic only child of a
fundraiser, she also wonders how to incorporate giving. I offered to go into her class and talk
about it.
Ms. van Bueren had written the word philanthropy on the
chalkboard when I arrived. It was
fun to watch the students pour into the room and immediately try to pronounce
it. A few had heard the word and
associated it with giving and sharing, but for many it was a new term.
What struck me, however, was that there was nothing new
about the concept. Keeley's class
is definitely very diverse socioeconomically, yet every single student lit up
as I asked for examples of ways they have given or shared their time or talents
or treasures (thanks to this wonderful website: http://learningtogive.org/ for that great
phraseology). They all blurted out
real examples of how they had helped a neighbor, donated food for the food drive,
or volunteered at a community event.
One girl shared how proud she was to donate to a horse rescue operation
for her birthday. They all agreed
it feels really good to give and that this feeling lasts for a long time. They
might not know the word philanthropy, but they definitely know what it is.
Our kids are the seeds for philanthropy and at the ages of 9
or 10 at least, they see it as a good and wonderful thing. But, because we don't purposefully and
directly talk about it, kids aren't thinking of themselves as philanthropists.
When we teach about something it becomes worthy and important. Mrs. van Bueren's class was already a
room full of philanthropists in their own ways, but they didn't know it until
we talked about it.
Now they do.
And, apparently, they spent the next hour after I left discussing what
they want to do as a class to help the whole school. I love the idea of a whole 4th grade of philanthropists and I wonder how can we nurture this feeling that philanthropy is fun and meaningful in the grades beyond.
People often ask me what our organization is doing to help
get kids involved – and I'm sure by that they mean how are we teaching kids
directly about our mission of conservation in the Methow Valley. But, maybe in addition to the important
conservation-based educational and fieldwork opportunities we can provide, we
have a responsibility to get kids involved in our philanthropy. Giving them a voice in protecting a
place they love might be the most empowering conservation message we could
teach. And, maybe, by empowering them to be philanthropists, we'd learn a thing or two about how
to ensure our messages and mission stay relevant over time. Who knows…we might even spark the fire
for a future fundraising professional.
Do you think nonprofits should engage youth in
philanthropy or does that somehow feel manipulative? What can I do with
Keeley's class as a follow up to empower them as philanthropists?
Your essay enables me to see the 4th graders talking eagerly and enthusiastically about giving and the joy it multiplies. Just as good fund raisers keep in contact with donors, creating friendships as well as contributions, I hope you can visit the class again and find out how the class's project for the school is coming along. Among other things, your presence would help to show the children that you care about what they are doing. It might also give you the chance to nurture the idea that they might consider devoting their lives to such good causes. Far from manipulation, such work is invitation. In my work as a college professor, I was in that field all the time, constantly inviting young people to think, deeply, about how they might spend their lives. We all need such guidance. Providing it is itself a philanthropic act. -- JKR
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